Summer Fun Week 12 - How do you follow the YES?

Time to read: It's a long one. Might take you a minute or so to read.

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It's Week 12! There is so much to say about fun. I'm going to keep going.

I talk to my clients about following the energy of YES, and today I'm going to teach you how to do that so your life is filled with more fun.

In shameless self-promotion, the example is my signature group coaching program, Clarity U.

I have led Clarity U for 5 years, and last year, I just didn't feel it. I wasn't motivated to promote it. The idea of marketing was exhausting. I didn't want to think about it or talk about it. I could have forced myself to do it, and the end result would have felt like going through the motions. I want to offer my clients energy, presence and inspiration. So I didn't offer it.

This is the energy of no.

Of course, you have to do things you don't like or don't feel like doing. And, when the juice just isn't there, pay attention. Does something need to change? Do you need a break? Do you need to approach the thing differently or change something?

Alternatively, this summer, two people approached me to ask if I was offering Clarity U again this fall. I was, like, hmmm…that sounds like fun. The door felt open, and the possibilities exciting. I started to imagine the people in the group and found myself wanting to talk about it again.

This is the energy of yes.

If you want more fun in your life, follow the energy of yes. It always leads someplace good.

And, remember the shameless self-promotion piece? If you'd like to chat about whether Clarity U is a good fit for you, please hit reply to this email, and we'll find a time to chat.

P.S. My Clarity U group coaching program is back for fall 2025. If you're curious about a cohort coaching program, email me , and we'll set up a time to chat!

 

Three Cheers For Your Freedom!

Time to read: 30 seconds because you have BBQ to eat and fireworks to watch!

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Even though the 4th of July is a distinctly American holiday, around the globe, nations mark their independence from tyranny and external control in celebrations of all sorts. Keep reading to see what this holiday has to do with your life and work.

In those idealized stories of nationhood, bands of ill-equipped, untrained and determined rebels threw off the shackles of domination and colonization by much bigger powers. Passion, tenacity and the desire for self-determination led citizens to take a stand for their freedom.

They did not wait for someone to give them freedom. They believed that independence was their birthright. They believed they had the power to create their own reality. They put those beliefs into action that ultimately led to their independence.

These stories are idealized. Hypocrisy and oppression are baked into the reality of these independence stories. We can't and shouldn't ignore the complexity. Both the passion and the hypocrisy are part of the narrative.

And this brings me to you on this festive 4th of July. Freedom from tyranny is your birthright, even when that tyranny is your own beliefs and choices. The path to liberation is complicated, messy and far from ideal. Don't let the complexity and messiness become an excuse for inaction. You have the power of self-determination. It's simply (HA!) a matter of clearing the clutter from your mind so you can see the path forward.

Happy 4th of July, everyone.

I raise a glass to your freedom!

Christina

P.S. If you know someone who wants to be liberated from the tyranny of their own beliefs and choices, simply forward this email to them. They can join us here.

P.P.S. Very soon, my BFF, Anne Lippin, MD and I are launching a cool weeklong challenge that will help you quiet the noise. I don't know about you, but our lives can get very noisy. We've created this challenge to help you clear the path to your freedom. Stay tuned. Coming soon!