It All Starts With YOU

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A few weeks ago, when I asked what keeps you up at night, overwhelmingly you answered, "the state of the world," "how to go about daily life when so much is going on," and "people no longer caring for each other."

First, I want to acknowledge that you are right. There is so much going on. It's a constant barrage of bad news, chaos, and reasons to despair.

And…I hope.

I believe in the power of humans. Humans get seduced by power, money, greed, and ego and justify terrible things to ourselves. That is not all we are.

The world you want starts with you. Each of us has a responsibility, a duty to put out into the world the energy and behavior you wish to see in other people and in our culture.

That means:

• Be kind, even when others are not.
• Take care of yourself so you have the energy to choose your behavior. Being tired leads to unconscious reactions which are often not helpful or productive.
• Actively find ways to serve the people around you in big and small ways. What do you have to share? What can you give? As an example, we have a cherry tree in our yard, and I invited folks from my Buy Nothing FB page to pick cherries. People brought their kids. A refugee family was so happy to have a taste of home. Sharing those cherries was not a big thing. And it breathed the energy of generosity and abundance I want to feed.
• Take responsibility for yourself. This is a big one that I will break down over a few weeks. You are the agent of your life. Make your choices accordingly.

This is a start to a bigger conversation. More to come....

Do You Worry If People Are Still Kind?

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Beautiful flowers

A few weeks ago, when I asked you what you need this summer, many of you said you worry that people have lost the ability to be kind or care about each other. I plan to write about that A LOT because I have opinions. I always have opinions. :-)

When I wrote about my father's death last week, you all flooded me with love -handwritten notes, emails, texts, cards, and even more surprising, donations in honor of my father to the Lamu Center for Preventative Health (that's the link if you are so moved). Someone even sent me a rose bush.

Many of these kind expressions are from those of you I've never met. I'll grant that we "know" each other through this forum and email. And, if you worry that people have lost the ability to be kind, not in this group of 2000.

We are a micro community in a wider community, and even though what you see in the news shows a lot of crappy behavior, humans are programmed to be kind. You prove that every day.

And I will write about this more and the ways that you feed the world you want.

Small Acts Of Kindness Matter

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Mid-Century Sterling Bird Brooch

As Operation Metro Surge continues in our beloved city, I've noticed something as I go about daily life.

People are being extra kind.

I'm a transplant to Minnesota, and can attest that Minnesota-Nice is a real thing. We (They?) are genuinely nice people.

Lately, I've noticed people going out of their way to be kind. Here are some things I've observed this week (beyond the kindness of delivering food, showing up for our neighbors, and all the ways Minnesotans are giving generously):

• Letting people into traffic
• Giving other passengers hot tips to avoid the lines at the airport
• Stopping for pedestrians
• Talking to strangers
• Lots and lots of smiling
• Playing music on street corners

When the going gets tough, get kind.

Consider all the small ways you can show up in your workplace, family, and neighborhood with small acts of kindness. It takes zero effort and has a huge impact.