It All Starts With YOU

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Lilies from my garden

A few weeks ago, when I asked what keeps you up at night, overwhelmingly you answered, "the state of the world," "how to go about daily life when so much is going on," and "people no longer caring for each other."

First, I want to acknowledge that you are right. There is so much going on. It's a constant barrage of bad news, chaos, and reasons to despair.

And…I hope.

I believe in the power of humans. Humans get seduced by power, money, greed, and ego and justify terrible things to ourselves. That is not all we are.

The world you want starts with you. Each of us has a responsibility, a duty to put out into the world the energy and behavior you wish to see in other people and in our culture.

That means:

  • Be kind, even when others are not.
  • Take care of yourself so you have the energy to choose your behavior. Being tired leads to unconscious reactions which are often not helpful or productive.
  • Actively find ways to serve the people around you in big and small ways. What do you have to share? What can you give? As an example, we have a cherry tree in our yard, and I invited folks from my Buy Nothing FB page to pick cherries. People brought their kids. A refugee family was so happy to have a taste of home. Sharing those cherries was not a big thing. And it breathed the energy of generosity and abundance I want to feed.
  • Take responsibility for yourself. This is a big one that I will break down over a few weeks. You are the agent of your life. Make your choices accordingly.

This is a start to a bigger conversation. More to come....

 

Do You Worry If People Are Still Kind?

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Beautiful flowers

A few weeks ago, when I asked you what you need this summer, many of you said you worry that people have lost the ability to be kind or care about each other. I plan to write about that A LOT because I have opinions. I always have opinions. :-)

When I wrote about my father's death last week, you all flooded me with love -handwritten notes, emails, texts, cards, and even more surprising, donations in honor of my father to the Lamu Center for Preventative Health (that's the link if you are so moved). Someone even sent me a rose bush.

Many of these kind expressions are from those of you I've never met. I'll grant that we "know" each other through this forum and email. And, if you worry that people have lost the ability to be kind, not in this group of 2000.

We are a micro community in a wider community, and even though what you see in the news shows a lot of crappy behavior, humans are programmed to be kind. You prove that every day.

And I will write about this more and the ways that you feed the world you want.

 

What are you worried about these days?

Time to read: 10 seconds

I don't drink, and last week, I had one, ok, two, cocktails at our daughter's college graduation

I'd like to create a series or two for you this summer, and I want to address the topics you care about. Please email me and let me know what you think.

Use these questions as inspiration. Then I will use your emails as inspiration.

  • What are you thinking about these days?
  • What keeps you up at night?
  • What would you like to process or know more about?
  • What issues are front and center in your world?

I love to hear from you, and I am excited to take the pulse of this community and create some content just for you!

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Taking A Beat

Time to read: 15 seconds

An amazing quote and beautiful art at Rancho La Puerta in Mexico

I was teaching out of the country last week and came home to the tragedies that are unfolding in Minnesota.

Many people have asked me to share some wisdom. I'm still processing and thinking about what to say that hasn't already been said eloquently by many others.

I paused the final newsletter in the series about your career and will come back to it later. And I am listening and thinking and considering what to say in this moment in time.

I'll be back with more next week. As always, please email me and tell me how you are feeling and what questions you have. I always love to hear from you.

 

Does Generosity Matter In Business? Yup!

Time to read: 35 seconds

Last week, I spoke about generosity. Generosity matters in business, no matter your industry. If you work in medical devices, you aren’t going to give someone a free pacemaker with purchase, and you can always give your time and care.

I structure my business with many layers of support. This weekly newsletter is open to anyone and everyone. It’s free. I like communicating with you. I want people to have information that makes a difference, and this newsletter is a great format to share my best strategies and thinking.

I love it when people reply with stories, questions, and comments.

I offer group programs, team workshops, and 1:1 coaching as well. I know many of you will never reach out and never hire me. That's great! This community exists for however you want to interact with it and whatever you need.

Relationships are important to me, and that includes you, even if you quietly read this newsletter every week and never reply. I'm happy to know you!

 

Summer Fun Week 7 - Give!

Time to read: 15 seconds

It's Week 7 and time for Tip #3

Today's tip for more fun is simple, quick, and actionable.

Give things away.

Where I live, people put things at the end of the driveway for other people to take. There are neighborhood Buy Nothing groups and gifting sites. I'm involved in the free flow of free stuff, and it's fun.

By giving things away, you....

  • Build community
  • Make friends
  • Create mental space for yourself by clearing stuff from your house
  • Breathe new life into items that are languishing in your home
  • Keep usable items out of the waste stream

You can also give of your time, talent, and energy. When you give, you receive tenfold in joy and fun.

So Fun!

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