Don't Do It Alone

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These two do not normally get along

Last week I talked about how the human brain hates uncertainty. In the US, we have much uncertainty, and people tell me how anxious and unnerved they feel.

I certainly don't have all the answers, and I and the Corporate Rebel Masters group had a powerful call last week and came up with a number of…what to call them…solutions?…suggestions?…ways to be?… to help navigate these choppy waters.

Here is the first one: Don't go it alone.

When in liminal space (the powerful and uncomfortable in-between place), go in with others. Find and activate your community. Call your friends. Schedule dinner dates. Host parties. Drink tea (with friends). Go for walks (with others). Go into the office and see people live and in person.

Remind yourself of the love and support in your life, and the love and support you offer others. When your brain is exploding from the uncertainty, find your people and hold on tight!

More tips for navigating this season are coming right up in the coming weeks!

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What's Going On? It's Fall!🍂

Time to read: 46 seconds

In my Corporate Rebel Masters group (graduates of my programs), we talked about liminal space and the discomfort of uncertainty.

Most simply put liminal space is space between things. It's the space between one identity and another, between daybreak and morning, between summer and winter, between one administration and the next.

There is a seasonality to the discomfort. Fall is a liminal season. Plants die and trees shed. We say goodbye to summer. Even if you live in Southern California, kids return to school and things just "feel different." You're not in summer and not in winter. You're in between.

People tell me they feel anxious or sad in the uncertainty. In the US, we have a charged election and too many other things to list. It seems normal to feel agitated and anxious in this in-between place. We know how things were. We don't yet know how they are going to be.

The human brain hates uncertainty. In the next few weeks, I'll share the wisdom from CR Masters about what to do, how to care for yourself and others in this uncomfortable in-between place.

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Brain Care: Part 5 - This One Is Fun!

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Me, doing something new. A self-driving car!

We are well into fall. I hope you are settled into your fall routine and feeling more at ease. Today is the last element to enhance neuroplasticity, novelty.

The brain likes to be stretched, to do and learn new things. Using your brain keeps your brain flexible into the future. It’s easy to add new things into your life.

Here is your simple challenge:

  • Take on a new project at work (bonus: work and novelty together)
  • ead books (each book takes you to a new world)
  • Walk a different route with your dog. See and think about new things.
  • If you have time, develop a new habit…learn to play piano or knit or grow tomatoes.
  • Join a new activity with other people. That will yield new conversations and generate new interests and friendships.
  • Make a new recipe for dinner.

Adding new things to your life doesn’t have to be time-consuming. Simply figure out ways to add new elements to things you already do. Your brain will thank you.

Welcome to fall. Your brain is all set to go!

 

Brain Care: Part 4 - Ah…Sleep

Time to read: 37 seconds

We’ve covered movement, food, mindfulness, and now it’s time for a fan favorite….SLEEP.

Recent research has shown that sleep is even more important than we thought. Your brain and body MUST have adequate sleep. This is good news because who doesn’t love to sleep?

If your sleep is great…keep going. If you want to improve your sleep, here is your simple challenge: sleep more.

  • Go to bed a teeny bit earlier
  • Create a bedtime routine
  • Make sure your bed and bedding are comfy
  • Adjust the temperature in your room
  • Listen to a sleep meditation (it’s a BOGO…meditation and sleep!)
  • Nap

So tonight, hit the hay and really sleep. Sleep is not a luxury. It’s a necessity.

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Brain Care: Part 3 - Mindfulness

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Gorgeous vintage teapot

I talked about movement and food. The third element of neuroplasticity (brain flexibility) is mindfulness.

Mindfulness can mean a meditation practice. It can also mean simply becoming more present in your life.

Here is your simple challenge: become more mindful.

  • Add tiny slivers of mindfulness to your day. Notice the sparkle of the sun on the water, the smell of cut grass, or the taste of your salad.
  • Pause for a mental break. Even 30 seconds is enough to influence brain flexibility.
  • Meditate. 1 – 5 – 10 minutes. Sit quietly. Use a meditation app. Let go of any pressure that there is a right way to meditate.

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Brain Care: Part 2 - Fuel Yourself!

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Last week, I talked about the first element of neuroplasticity: movement.

The second is nutrition.

Your brain needs fuel to function optimally. I work with an exercise physiologist, and she recommends you eat every 2.5 to 3 hours and never let yourself become overly hungry. You get to eat all day!

Although there are no bad foods (yes, you can eat Doritos), the recommendations around brain-fueling food are consistent and clear... vegetables and fruit, sources of protein, and a bit of fat.

  • Here is your simple challenge: fuel your brain.
  • If you let yourself become hungry, feed yourself more often.
  • Add a favorite vegetable to your daily menu.
  • Add fruit to your breakfast.
  • Experiment with eating at different times of day and see how you feel. Then do what makes you feel sharp and alert.

Food is my favorite so I particularly like this challenge. Making tiny changes to your eating habits is easy. Just one little step at a time.

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Brain Care: Part 1 - Move Your Body!

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The first element of neuroplasticity (flexibility in the brain) is movement. Movement can be workouts at the gym, walks with your dog, or simply the activities of daily living. More movement is better, and any movement is good.

Here is your simple challenge: Move more.

If you move a lot already, where can you add more around the edges or mix it up? If you don’t move much, how can you take one little step (literally and figuratively).

Where can you add a little more movement to your day?

  • Take the stairs
  • Park far away from the door
  • Extend your walk
  • Add a second walk
  • Stretch while you watch Love Island
  • Do a few more reps at the gym or add 15 minutes of cardio
  • Take a class

The great thing about movement is that once you start, your body wants more and before you know it, you are in a self-perpetuating good habit. So, get up right now and move. Even if that’s a stretch at your desk.

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