Here's What You Are Worried About

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My puppy, "helping" me in the garden

You are generous, kind, and transparent. I'm grateful to be able to spend this summer writing about what matters to you! You shared stories, thoughts, and the things keeping you up at night. Here is a short list of what you said so you know you're not alone:

• life balance
• the intense job market
• how to design the next phase of life (ie retirement)
• AI
• self care
• caretaking like aging parents
• too many emails
• your mindset around money
• family drama

And overwhelmingly, you wrote about your distress over the state of the world and our country. Many of you lie awake at night worried about the cost of gas, groceries, the job market, climate change, and the feeling that humans have stopped caring about each other.

All of these subjects share common themes, like change, living with uncertainty, managing fear, trusting life and yourself, and sustaining hope as a way of life.

I'll tell you up front: I am hopeful. I believe in the power of human ingenuity, resilience, and care.

I will be writing about all these things. Stay tuned.

Love to all of you, and thank you!

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Making It Stick

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It's a lotus vase. Or officially called a "frog."

Six weeks ago, focus felt impossible.

You were buried. Reactive. Jumping between tasks and ending the day wondering where the time went.

I hope things feel more manageable.

To review, you've

• Shaped your environment instead of fighting it.
• Worked with your brain and energy’s natural rhythms.
• Protected time for the deep work that moves your career.
• Give yourself guilt-free rest.

None of this is magic. It's practice, and like any practice, it takes time, and you will slip.

A crazy week hits. The boundaries erode. The phone creeps back onto the desk. You cancel the fun for something urgent. That's not failure. That's just how a full, rich life works.

The question is how quickly you notice and come back.

That's the whole game. Do your best. Slip and recover. Start again. Skip the part where you judge or beat yourself up.

Learn to consciously reset. Take ten minutes at the end of the week to reflect. What worked? What didn't? What's one thing to protect or change next week? Small, consistent reflection compounds over time and creates powerful new habits. New habits transform your life, one step at a time.

Keep going! The skills you've built these past six weeks, focus, deep work, and recovery, aren't just productivity tools. They're career tools. They're what makes you someone who does exceptional work, builds a strong reputation, and is ready when opportunity appears.

Which, as we've talked about, is how careers advance.

This week: Set up your weekly reset. Pick a time — Friday afternoon, Sunday evening, whatever fits — and put it on the calendar. Ten minutes. Every week.

That's the whole practice.

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Next week: Your environment is talking to you. Let's make sure it's saying the right things.

Rest Is Not a Reward

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I'm starting to accept that the 1980s are vintage. Especially for these beautiful 1980s Tiffany earrings.

You've been grinding for weeks.

You're getting stuff done. Protecting your focus. Taming the noise. And somewhere in the back of your mind is a voice that says, “I'll rest when this is over. I'll have fun when I've earned it.”

I know this voice. I bet you do, too.

Rest makes work possible. It’s a must-have, not a nice-to-have. When you rest, your brain consolidates learning, generates creative connections, and recovers its capacity for focus. Cut downtime, and your effort will produce diminishing returns.

The same goes for fun. The things that have nothing to do with your career. A walk, a game, a long dinner with people you love. These aren't distractions from a productive life. They're the point of life.

Rest and downtime matter to your career. Some of your best thinking won't happen at your desk. It'll happen in the shower, on a run, staring out a window, while driving your car. The brain that's been given room to wander comes back sharper. That's how brains work. Giving yourself a break is you consciously using your brain’s full capacity.

The professionals who sustain high performance over a long career aren't the ones who grind the hardest. They're the ones who know how to rest and recover.

So, stop waiting to earn a break. Schedule it with the same intention you bring to your deep work blocks. Put it on the calendar and make it non-negotiable.

This week: Schedule something purely for you. Not productive. Not career-adjacent. Just fun. And if you’re tempted to cancel it, don’t. You must. Your coach just told you to rest. :-)

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Next week: Your environment is talking to you. Let's make sure it's saying the right things.