What I Learned This Summer Part 1: Nothing Is Not Nothing

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Welcome to fall, Corporate Rebels!

I took the month of August off, meaning I completely shut my business down and had no plans. It's the first time in my life I've ever done something like this. I learned a lot. For the next few weeks, I want to share: What I Learned on Summer Vacation.

Part 1: Nothing is not Nothing

My family has attended a family camp in the Colorado mountains for 16 years. Every year, I have led programs, organized activities and served as the director of the entire camp for 3 years.

I stood by the belief that being so deeply involved in camp brought me closer to the community and enhanced the experience of the weekend.

Every year, I was busy…making sure presenters had supplies, children were in the right places, problems were handled, and interpersonal situations addressed efficiently. I loved the intensity.

This year at camp, my children were counselors, and I had no responsibility. I expected that "doing nothing" would be boring.

I was wrong.

I discovered that Nothing is not Nothing.

All weekend, I had time to talk deep and long with friends I've known for 16 years but never had time to sit down with. People came to my room to hang out late into the night. We hiked. We had happy hour. I took naps.

In the running around for 16 years, I didn't see what I was missing. It turns out there is a lot of slower, quieter, deeply fulfilling things waiting in what seems like nothing. I just couldn't see it under layers of activity and performing.

This may be one of those moments when you think, "everyone already knows that!" and I'm humbled to be late to the party if that's the case.

Five weeks of doing nothing has inspired new thinking and ideas. I'm creating two free live programs for you this fall. They are coming soon. Share this blog with your friends and colleagues and they can subscribe to this newsletter here so they are first in line as soon as the events drop.

Now that I've seen what I was missing, my days will be filled with plenty of nothing. I'm never going back to that kind of busyness again. And, I'm excited to let the nothing create some awesome somethings for you!

Have a great weekend.

 

One Easy Way To Get What You Want

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New York!

In case your life is full this week, here's the punchline:

To get what you want, ask.

My daughter and I are headed to New York City for two weeks. She's doing an internship/shadow, and I am her roadie managing logistics and food. This trip happened because she sent an email asking for help, and the person responded with generosity beyond her wildest imagination.

I'm going to admit something here….I actually discouraged her from asking because I didn't want her to be a bother. (Notice what stops you from asking.) She did anyway, and she's off to the opportunity of a lifetime. (It's a good thing my teen daughter doesn't listen to me.)

So, go ahead. Bother the person. Ask. If you don't, the answer is certainly no.

When you ask, sometimes things don't work out or the answer is no. That's ok, too. It's not about the outcome, it's about opening space for possibilities.

So, go ahead and ask. I'd love to hear what you ask for, and what happens when you do.

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