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Let's cut right to the chase today. Do you ever feel like a fraud?
See if this feels familiar:
You’re leading a meeting and a voice in your head tells you this is the moment when everyone will find out that you have no idea what you’re talking about.
You get a new job and worry that everyone will now see that you are not qualified and have no idea what you are doing.
You are thinking of starting a blog or a community garden or a new initiative at your children's school and you stop yourself because who are you to do such a thing.
Yeah – I relate. I feel like a fraud when I write this newsletter (I don't have anything new to say). I sometimes feel like I have no idea what I'm doing when I coach and this is the moment when my clients will discover that I cannot help them. Ugh. I hate these feelings.
This condition is so common that it has a name. It’s called the Imposter Syndrome.
Oprah Winfrey sometimes feels like a fraud. Even the most successful VP at your company cycles through feeling like an imposter (I know this because I coach them). It’s human to feel this way.
So, what do you do about Imposter Syndrome? Here are 6 life hacks that will help you through those moments when you know the game is up!
- Remind yourself that it will pass. And that it will come back. And pass. And come back again.
- Make fun of it! "Check it out. The jig is totally up this time." Laugh at yourself with humble recognition.
- Tell someone. Bringing stuff like this into the light of day causes it to vaporize like the vampire that it is.
- Keep a file of kudos and nice things people have said to you. Save every grateful email, every thank you card. Then pull them out to remind yourself that you and your gifts matter. To lots of people.
- We need you! Stopping yourself from starting something new because you feel like an imposter denies the rest of us of your gifts. So get going already - even if you know you're not ready. You will never be ready.
- Take action. Nothing proves your worth to yourself and quiets those soul sucking voices like actually doing something.
I hope this helps!
ChristinaP.S. If you know someone who would like to receive this newsletter, they can sign-up for The Corporate Rebel Video Podcast and Newsletter HERE. P.P.S. I've been working on something big and cycling through Imposter Syndrome on a regular basis. In a few weeks you'll get to see it, and you can confirm that I really have no idea what I'm doing.